You Negotiator!!!

Why do we use negotiator in a negative sense?
Why is a negotiator considered as a jerk, a mean and aggressive person who wants to take away the most at the other person’s expense?
Why does negotiation means – one party loses and another party wins.
You are in negotiations all the day at all stages of life wherever you are. Every time you want someone to say “YES” and “AGREE” with you – you are negotiating. If you say “I want”, “I need” or “I think” – you are in negotiation.
Negotiation must not be used as a bad word.
Remember you are never negotiating with a person – in a negotiation both the parties are in the same boat – they are negotiating a situation and both are struggling with the same aspect. Both have the same objective to solve the problem together.